Skipping updates leaves real security gaps open; letting every app update itself whenever it wants leads to surprise restarts mid-task and browser tabs vanishing. The fix isn't choosing one extreme — it's separating updates that matter for security from ones that are just feature additions, and controlling the timing rather than the whether.

Not all updates carry the same urgency

Operating system and browser update descriptions usually indicate which category applies, though not always in plain language — a mention of "security fixes" or a CVE reference is your cue to prioritize it.

Set operating system updates to install automatically, but schedule the restart

Both Windows and macOS let you enable automatic security updates while choosing when the required restart happens (Windows: Settings → Windows Update → Advanced options, active hours; macOS: System Settings → Software Update → Advanced). This gets you patched promptly without a restart interrupting something you're in the middle of.

Browser updates: let them happen, they're low-risk

Modern browsers update silently and frequently, and delaying browser updates specifically is one of the riskier things to postpone, since browsers are a common target for exploits and updates are usually low-disruption (a restart of the browser, not the whole system). There's little upside to deferring these.

App-by-app updates: batch them instead of reacting to each one

Rather than updating apps the moment a notification appears (often at an inconvenient time), set aside a few minutes once a week to go through pending updates in your app store or update manager together. This keeps you current without constant interruption throughout the week.

Before a major version upgrade, check compatibility

Before installing a major OS or software version upgrade, a quick search for "[software name] [new version] issues" often surfaces widely-reported problems within days of release — worth a two-minute check, especially for software you depend on for work, before upgrading the moment it's available.

If an update ever seems to actively break something important, most platforms retain the previous version briefly or allow a rollback — check the software's own update or version history settings rather than assuming you're stuck with a problematic update.

A practical approach